Church is a verb
And nobody has to get pregnant.
Meeting together regularly is essential, but there is more to becoming a family. Go on a picnic; catch a movie; visit a museum; go to the library and play tag in the stacks. (Woops! The bishop has just informed us that this should not be considered a viable option. Sorry.) Have fun together.
Become a part of each other's lives. When Fred plays softball for the worst college team in the state, show up and root for him and his team. When Bob and Sue are at each other's throats, find excuses to drop by so they don't isolate in their anger and frustration. Visit little Timmy in the hospital -- often, not just a token visit.
Become a healthy and loving family together. Maybe you know what this is like from your own experience; maybe you don't. If you need help, watch The Adamms Family movie.
"How long has it been since we've waltzed?"
"Hours!"
Now there's a great family. Waltz together!
Church is a verb